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Farming crops in the Gambia |
So quipped the church worker half-jokingly, half-revealing his approach to work and rest (this was back home in England). He was serving away on his small staff team, no doubt inspiring many by his relentless hard work and wholeheartedness. Admirable zeal or misguided heading-for-a-premature-mid-life-crisis and serious exhaustion? I reckon a bit of both.
I recently read Going the Distance: How to Stay Fit for a Lifetime of Ministry by Peter Brain (2004). I was given the book 6 years ago and finally got round to reading it… It always seemed like the subject of persevering in the long-haul of ministry was a long-way off (I feel like I’ve only just crossed the start-line), but I figured that forewarned is forearmed, and generally in life challenges tend to come when one isn’t expecting them. So I thought I’d seize the moment and add it to my reading list.
It got me thinking afresh about rest.
The book is largely about “self-care” in Christian ministry. To many, that might sound indulgent. Doesn’t Jesus call us to deny ourselves and take up our cross as we follow him? Absolutely he does. And as I recently heard the inspirational Simon Guillebaud express, “God doesn’t promise us an easy journey; but he does promise us a safe arrival.” All of Jesus’ followers and particularly those in pastoral ministry, it seems from the Scriptures, are called to “Endure hardship… like a good soldier… as an athlete… [and a] hardworking farmer” (2 Timothy 2:3-6). It’s not meant to be easy.
But Peter Brain helpfully comments:
This call to self-denial refers to our “motivational self”, whereas self-care deals with our “structural self”… Self-denial does not mean denying our humanity expressed in a need for rest, friendship, strength, wisdom and support. Rather, it involves a willingness to deny self-interest. (pp.22-23)
Whilst we’re to deny any self-obsessed motivation or desires, and instead follow Christ alone, we are but frail created beings who need physical, mental, emotional and spiritual rest and refreshment in order to function.
A clear command
I’ve been re-reading the first few books of the Bible recently and the Sabbath command is manifestly not just an incidental thought - it of course makes it into the “Top Ten” in a sense, the Ten Commandments, and is oft repeated. Whilst all of God’s commands are binding and good, these ten are of special importance. Here’s the original occurrence:
Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days you shall labour and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work… (Exodus 20:8-10)
I was struck by the emphasis when the command is repeated a few pages later:
Six days you shall labour, but on the seventh day you shall rest; even during the ploughing season and harvest you must rest. (Exodus 34:21)
God knows what he’s doing. He’s telling us to stop being productive when we could keep working. Even during times when there is a significant amount of urgent work to be done (ploughing / harvest), God still tells us to observe the Sabbath. Six days of work, then stop for a day. Rest. Even when your exam is next week, even when your annual project is reaching its climax, “you must rest.”
It’s not a wholly straightforward thing to apply Old Testament laws to the Christian life, and so there’s always been a variety of approaches to interpreting the Sabbath command for Christians today. But I should think at least the principle is unmistakable. We really are to rest regularly - even weekly. It’s undeniable how every day our bodies are even designed to remind us that we need to rest. What a very humbling thing sleep is. In order to do anything, every day I need to just lie flat for a good many hours doing absolutely nothing, hardly even conscious of my existence. If I don’t, I really struggle to function! Sleep is an uncanny precursor and reminder of our mortality - the day will come before long when I will lie flat, all my work will be over and the world will carry on just as it did. That our short life of work can achieve anything of lasting value - which God’s word says it can - is astonishing.
A substantial aim of Brain’s book seems to be to protect his readers from ‘burnout’, a sadly common reality for pastors / ministers / missionaries / whatever, as much as for anyone else. The book helpfully addresses some of the particular challenges faced in those kinds of ‘callings’.
And Brain longs for us to recognise that when we’re flagging and beginning to show signs of burnout, we must heed the warnings! When we do so, we can treat it as a friend rather than a foe:
Burnout can be devastating, a relentless foe that will keep on capturing pastors, and robbing us of joy in ministry and life in general. Though probably inevitable, its symptoms, if spotted early, can be reversed. They become an invitation to recover our perspective. Its symptoms can be likened to a caring friend who says, “It’s time to slow down, to regroup, to turn out for a while.” Far from being an invitation to be self-indulgent, the preventative strategies we put in place, like the regular servicing of our motor car, will work to keep us on track and running well for as long as possible.
Lazy or workaholic?
Most of us probably know if we’re more prone towards laziness or workaholism. I’ve been reflecting on how one particular Bible passage addresses us either way. It’s an extremely significant few words, which go right to the heart of the Christian believer’s identity, originally written regarding sexual purity, but applicable to any area of life:
You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honour God with your body. (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)
Lazy?
When I’m prone to laziness I need to remember these 3 ultimate truths:
- I am not my own: I am not at liberty to fritter away life as I choose. I have a Master.
- I was bought at a price: Do I realise how loved I am by my Master? How treasured I am by God? He did not spare his own precious eternal Son, but gave him up for me! “While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8)
- I’m to honour God with my body: Though weak, I am called to get on and give God glory with some hard work.
Workaholic?
When I’m prone to workaholism (“Rest?! We’ve got eternity to rest!”), I also need to remember these same 3 ultimate truths:
- I am not my own: I am not at liberty to set the rules and ignore God’s humbling design of rest.
- I was bought at a price: I won’t earn any extra favour with God through my hard work, and he doesn’t expect me to work beyond my capacity. He already loves me infinitely and spent his Son’s precious blood to purchase me and redeem me from the condemnation I deserve.
- I’m to honour God with my body: Stop work and give God the glory by resting - acknowledging that he will still be working, achieving his sovereign purposes, even when I am resting, sleeping and even dead.
Here’s the issue - will I believe God’s word and design? He says that if I am to honour him and work as he wants me to, thereby achieving the fruitful purposes that he desires from my life, that will involve rest. If I recognise the privilege of working for the Lord, and if I appreciate the mystery and wonder of my pathetic little life having any impact in God’s world, then I must take this seriously. The value you place on your rest reveals the value you place on your work.
Yes, eternity will be sweet rest. Rest is a beautiful word that is used throughout the Bible to describe our eternal enjoyment of God in all his glory, goodness and grace after this life. Oh, how wonderful that will be! But even as we labour and strive now in whatever sphere he has called us to, however urgent and important the work is, we are called to rest regularly - to refresh our weak selves and to remember that through faith in Jesus we have become God’s children in whom he delights. We are weak but our Father is strong. We are just creatures but our Father is the Creator. We are finite and small but our Father is sovereign and his loving hand is over all that we are and all that we do.
Why not take some time to look at your schedule and consider...
- How much sleep you’re really getting and how much you need;
- When each week you’re going to have a day of rest;
- When each term or few months you’re going to get a proper rest.